6 Signs Your Dog Trusts You

You know your dog loves you, but does your four-legged bestie trust you as well? There is a difference!  

The bond between dog and guardian is built with every interaction, so when things go wrong—like a frustrating walk or an ignored recall at the park—you might be left wondering, “Does my dog trust me?”  

Our dogs have obvious as well as subtle ways of showing that the relationship is strong. Here are six signs your dog trusts you, as well as tips for building trust with your dog. 

Signs Your Dog Trusts You

Trust is based on the understanding that the individuals in a relationship can be relied upon. In dog world, it’s a critical part of the equation because we provide nearly everything our dogs need, from food and enrichment to outdoor access.  

However, the trust inherent in this relationship scenario isn’t guaranteed. That’s because there are ways we may accidentally chip away at the feelings our dogs have for us. For example, do you react with a collar correction when your dog pulls during a walk? Are nail trims a wrestling match with your pup? Then there could be a trust issue at play. 

That said, there are many ways our dogs convey that our relationship bond is strong. Here are six signs your dog trusts you. 

1. Care Tasks Are Stress-Free 

From teeth brushing to nail trimming, our pups require quite a few grooming and care tasks, and allowing us to perform them without a fuss is a clear indicator that your pup trusts you.  

Most of the handling required for care is awkward if not a little uncomfortable for dogs—Have you ever tried brushing a Pug’s molars?—so a dog who goes with the flow during unpleasant procedures shows how much they trust you. 

2. You’re the Focus 

When you’re visiting the dog park or out on the trail, does your dog frequently pause to check in with you? If so, you have a strong bond! 

When you and your dog are having adventures together, it’s easy for your pup to get distracted. It’s a great big world out there, but a dog who trusts their person knows exactly who’s at the center of it: you.  

That’s not to say your dog needs to be attached to your hip at all times; it’s more a case of your best friend wanting to keep their eyes on you no matter how much fun they’re having.   

3. They Have Soft Body Language 

A dog who’s on alert and worried will have vastly different posture than one who feels at ease.  

Your trusting dog will present with body language that shows their comfort level with you. You’ll likely see a relaxed face, soft eyes, and a wag that wiggles the entire hind end.  

A dog who’s unsure about the person at the other end of the leash might have a stiff posture and gait, and duck away if the person reaches for them. 

4. Training Together Is Fun 

Long ago, dog training consisted of a series of drills that didn’t leave much room for enjoyment or creativity on either end of the leash. Modern, science-backed dog training, on the other hand, is a collaborative effort that puts the focus on the relationship between student and teacher.  

Rather than being forced to maintain a tight heel or hold an endless down-stay, training rooted in trust allows for an ebb and flow to the process. Mistakes happen, and that’s OK! Training done properly not only gives you and your dog a common language, but it’s also a fantastic way to strengthen your bond of trust.  

5. You’re the Support System 

Sometimes, life gets intense, and a dog who trusts his person is going to turn to them for help when feeling overwhelmed.  

Whether it’s dealing with a pushy stranger who insists on trying to pet your dog or an unexpected sound from a truck outside your house, a dog who trusts you will look to you for direction.  

Thanks to the bond you’ve built, you’re the security blanket, escape hatch, and translator—all rolled into one.  

6. You’re Snuggle Buds 

When the day is over and it’s time to settle down, a dog who trusts you will want to hang out close to you.  

Of course, the degree of snuggle is dependent on your dog’s individual preference. Some trusting pups will want to find a spot beneath the blanket and pressed up against you, while others might choose to camp out on the floor next to you, with a single paw pressed against your foot. Either way, they like being close to you. 

How To Build Trust With Your Dog

Still wondering if your dog trusts you? The following tips will help fast-track your relationship to a stronger bond and greater trust: 

Don’t Force Your Dog To Engage 

Sure, you want the world to understand how amazing your pup is, but if they seem reluctant to approach new people or scenarios, don’t push. Your dog should understand that you’re always looking out for them. 

Learn Body Language 

There’s more to canine communication than a waggy tail, so learning the nuances of body language will better equip you to be your best friend’s ally.  

If you can see that your dog is starting to feel stressed in a particular scenario, move on before your dog tips over into full reactivity. 

Don’t Yell at Your Dog  

Sure, we all get frustrated now and then, but making a habit of yelling at your dog will chip away at the trust between you.  

If you find yourself frequently yelling at your dog, take a step back and determine why it keeps happening.  

Dog problems usually have a human component. For example, if your dog won’t come when you call, there’s a chance that you didn’t put in enough time proofing the behavior. Always remember to consider your role in frustrating canine scenarios. 

Allow for Choices  

We control nearly every aspect of our dogs’ lives, from what they eat to when they eliminate, so giving your dog autonomy is a way to prove that trust is a two-way street. For example, let them choose which path you’re going to walk or how long they sniff the trash can in the park.  

Giving your dog the chance to have a voice in your day-to-day life is an easy way to deepen the connection to your furry best friend.